The ability to speak beautifully and build your speech correctly is a very valuable and useful skill. It can help to find useful connections, easily negotiate with partners or help to win the heart of a lady or man who likes. You may have noticed that with some people can talk endlessly without noticing the time, and with others and five-minute communication turns into a challenge.
Many people mistakenly believe that the ability to speak beautifully and influence people is an innate skill. In fact, this is not quite the case, certainly genetics is bearing fruit, and our education from early childhood is also important. However, learn to speak may even a closed and shy introvert, everything depends only on your desire.
Learn to speak beautifully will not be easy, but if you really want it and are ready to act, then this article will be a great help for you.
Communicating with yourself
Each of us has an ongoing dialogue with ourselves. It is very important that we learn to love ourselves and to believe in ourselves. Until you agree with yourself, you will not succeed. Agree that it is not very interesting to listen to people who do not believe in their own speech. Always try to speak clearly, loudly and without doubt.
Do not criticize
We are all different people and see the world differently. Criticism, especially the wrong one, leads to conflict and misunderstanding between people. So before you criticize, think about whether it is worth doing at all. If it is still necessary to do it, then it should be done correctly. Before you start criticizing, emphasize the strengths of the person and then talk about his or her problem areas.
Exclude words – parasites
The words of the parasites turn your beautiful speech into a dreary long monologue. So you need to get rid of such words. You should also pay attention to the correct phrasing of sentences. Try to make your speech as valuable as possible, think about the benefits of each word spoken.
To do so, you can ask your family and friends for help to point you out possible mistakes. You can also record your speech on your smartphone and then analyze it.
Beautiful speech of many people is spoiled by bad diction. Literally every 3 people have some problem with diction. But this is not a problem at all, diction, as well as any other skill can be improved. Although we’ll have to try. About how to improve the diction and what exercises to use for this, I wrote in a previous article.
Gesticulation and Mimicry Training
Non-verbal communication skills are as important as speech itself, so gesticulation and mimicry should be given separate attention. Try to rule out insecure gestures such as crossing hands, scratching your nose or head during a conversation and other such actions.
To do this, it is worth working in front of a mirror. Then observe how you behave during the conversation, eliminate weak points and begin to emphasize your speech and its main points with gestures and facial expressions.